Whatever time of year you decide to pop the question, you are sure to make it the best time of year when you get down on one knee and present your other half with a diamond ring that shows just how much they mean to you. Some of the cutest proposals have involved a puppy or a kitten underneath a Christmas tree with a diamond ring attached to their collars and notes such as “Will you marry my new daddy?” Puppies and diamonds? Who could say no to that? Others have seen children or potential stepchildren help their parents propose, other times people revisit the setting of their first date.
Choosing the right time of year to propose is the easy part, you will always choose a time that is right for you – but when it comes to choosing the perfect engagement ring, some men find this part a little tricky. How do you find a single piece of jewellery that represents your love for that one person that you want to spend the rest of your life with (and you hope they feel the same way)? Luckily, AC Silver are experts when it comes to diamond rings and antique engagement rings and have some great advice for you.
Gemstone ring or plain diamond ring?
Most ladies will have tried to drop subtle hints to their partner when they know what they want – it’s just up to you to take them on board. If you are in a committed long term relationship, believe me – she has dropped hints. Trust us, it will certainly make engagement ring shopping a lot easier. So, if your potential future fiancée keeps on talking about sapphire rings, you must go for a sapphire cluster ring, for instance. Do not be afraid of it not being “traditional” enough — if that’s what she wants, then that’s what she should get – after all, she will be the one wearing it day in, day out. Nowadays, traditions have changed and you are more than free to do whatever you want without judgement. The only thing to bear in mind is that some stones are softer than others so will need some extra care and attention. Diamond are the most hardwearing gemstones with a hardness of 10 on the Mohs scale and for this reason they symbolise an ever-lasting love and are the preferred choice for many people.
“Diamonds are forever”
A safe bet would be a timeless classic such as a diamond solitaire ring – these are generally guaranteed to impress your other half and you can personally choose the style yourself. An engagement ring is going to be worn daily and a diamond solitaire ring is the perfect accessory to complement any outfit – and it will never go out of trend.
How do you choose the perfect diamond?
A basic understanding of the diamond’s four Cs will help: the four ‘C’s’ being: Cut, Colour, Clarity and Carat-Weight.
Diamonds come in plenty of different colours, but the most popular ones are white diamonds with a colourless stone being the highest grade. Diamonds are graded from a D colour which would be colourless, to a Z which would be light yellow. Generally, anything higher than an I colour can be considered as very high colour graded and will have a nice white colour if that is what you are looking for.
The clarity of a diamond is determined by the size, number and location of natural inclusions within the stone when viewed under 10x magnification. The range varies from an IF, internally flawless indicating no inclusions at all, to an I3, which will be an included stone. Any stone higher than an SI1 or SI2, slightly included, stone will show a good brilliance and the inclusions will not be seen with a naked eye. Be sure to bear this in mind.
The ‘weight’ of a diamond is measured in carats. As the ‘weight’ of a diamond increases, so does its rarity and this will be reflected in the price – the bigger the diamond, the more expensive it will be.
Modern Brilliant round cut:
The modern brilliant round cut diamond is by far the most popular choice of diamond shape these days. A solitaire ring does not necessarily have to be a single stone, it can be embellished on the shoulders or can be arranged around the main gemstone in a halo-like design.
Old European round cut:
This is the antique version of the modern brilliant round cut with the difference being that it is older (pre-Circa 1920s), and hand cut as opposed to machine cut. An old European round cut diamond will not be as “neat” as a modern cut one but will have a distinctive classic antique look and a more unique design. Such stones are also great value for money.
Transitional modern brilliant round cut:
Sitting in between the Old European round cut and the modern brilliant round one, transitional modern brilliant round cut diamonds were typically diamonds cut around the 1930s-60s. These diamonds are often very similar to modern brilliant round cut ones.
The princess cut is the most popular non-round diamond cut. It is either square or rectangular cut with pointed corners. You may have seen many ladies sporting these.
Emerald cut diamonds can be square or rectangular but these differ from the Princess cut as the corners are tapered and the pavillion (underside) has a faceted cut.
The Asscher cut diamond is nearly identical to the Emerald cut except that it is square with a total depth which is typically greater.
Obviously, there are also less well-known options. These include: marquise cuts, cushion cuts, old Dutch cuts, fancy cuts (heart shaped ones for instance), pear cuts and old mine cuts.
White gold, yellow gold or platinum?
This decision is generally down to personal taste – it is worth considering what your loved one would prefer as well as what will match her other jewellery – some prefer white gold, others silver, others something else. White gold and platinum seem to be the most popular options with platinum having the added advantage of being more hardwearing. Have a look at your partner’s jewellery and see what she wears most often.
If you really are in doubt but want to keep it a surprise for your intended, it is sometimes useful to bring someone with you. The question is who would know her taste best? Maybe her mother, sister or best friend could be a good call? Someone who can keep a secret for sure!
The perfect choice – is yours
Follow your instinct – after all, you are the person she is about to choose to spend the rest of her life with. So, give yourself more credit, as you probably know her taste well enough to make the perfect choice!